My wife asked me the other day, what do I do all day long. I wanted to tell her the truth that I usually do nothing but watch TV and read blogs, but that isn’t entirely true. I usually try to think up of ways to amuse other people with my witty commentary and open the lines of communication between family members. For an example, the other night, we had a post Christmas celebration with some family friends. Their children are now 22 and 24 and are both males. One has a serious live in girlfriend and the other one is in his final year of college.
After a fun evening, they were on their way out the door and I saw the After Christmas Sales Ad for Toys R Us. I asked the older one (with the serious girlfriend) if he wanted to look through it for some good toys. However, this was a joint ad flyer with Babies R Us as well as the Toys R Us section. I told him he should take the flyer home, circle a few of the car seats and baby strollers and then leave it out where his mom could find it. He would depart to his home two and a half hours away. She would freak out, frantically call and text him numerous times (which he could ignore and chuckle to himself) as he drove home.
See? Doesn’t that help to open up the lines of communication in the family?
Like I said, I’m a communications expert in family relationships.