Let’s get something straight….everyone wants to feel special. They might say that they don’t want to be special, they don’t want to be noticed but, in reality they do. Regardless, everyone wants to be special whether they admit it or not.
If you write a blog, you know this to be true. Sure, you can say you write your blog for yourself, but secretly you hope it becomes hugely popular and you have an extremely large following of devoted followers.
You can say you are an introvert and therefore don’t want to be noticed. This isn’t true. You might be very outgoing when you need to be, yet hate to be around people. You can write an extremely funny blog yet never be able to hold a conversation at a party with new people.
However, on the flip side, if you are comfortable with the people at the party, you are the life of the party.
Everyone says extroverts are the outgoing ones and you want to be around them. However, they dominate the conversation because they need to be always “on”. I think extroverts are a overwhelming. Extroverts love to hear themselves talk. Introverts have the power to turn “on” (or “off”) the “outgoing” side. Introverts have the ability to sit back and not say anything. They can melt into the background, hide in the crowd, and just observe.
I, like everyone else that blogs, hopes my blog takes off and becomes hugely successful. It would be ideal to sit back and construct witty blog posts everyday that lead to more and more followers.
So click on the “like” button and share with your Facebook friends my blog….
2 thoughts on “Everyone Wants to Be Special or at least feel Special”
I the presence of homemade chocolate chip cookies, I become weak. Therefore, I am going to “like” this post. 🙂 Seriously though, you are spot on re: intro vs. extroverts.
How that fat ass challenge going these days? Eating a lot of cookie dough? Or making the rest of the Dads cower?
Doing excellent. I had to pep talk one of the dads the other day. He could be the winner but I don’t know if his heart is in it. Me, I’m down 11 lbs. Can’t complain…I’m eating right and working hard!