Thanksgiving is tomorrow here in the United States and I’m usually out of town with no internet access. This year is different, this year fate has told me to stay home with the family and enjoy the wonders of my neighborhood. As you know, this also allows me the chance to write a blog post and reflect what I should be thankful for.
Am I thankful for family, friends, or a great dinner?
Dinner brings on a set of interesting items to discuss. Now that friends and family know we are in town, our Thanksgiving dinner has ballooned from a reasonable dinner of eight to a huge dinner of 21-23 people. I assume the range of possible guest attending is due to the guest’s lack of commitment to our dinner. I really don’t mind a huge gathering because Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays. No gifts involved but lots of food and good drink to make everyone healthy, wealthy, and wise. I feel like a Viking getting ready for a raid after I gouge myself on a turkey dinner and fine drink.
Ready the oars!
I’m also fortunate to have a wife who knows how to cook a turkey and other side dishes. The meal will be worth it.
So enjoy your Thanksgiving dinner and enjoy the time with your friends and family. That’s if you can stand your family.
My blog wouldn’t be complete if there was an old ode to Thanksgiving this year. Trust me, this isn’t some sappy “I’m thankful for….” blog about how much I’m thankful for this and that. Really? Everyone (well, the two people that read this blog plus Cyndi my imaginary stalker) know that I am a very thankful person (and sarcastic). Like most people with half a heart, I enjoy the fact that I actually like and enjoy my family and friends. Unlike the Dr. Seuss character “The Grinch”, I like Thanksgiving and Christmas and the holiday cheer these holidays bring.
However, due to the weather, this year’s blog comes from our home in Kent versus our usually location of Anderson Island. With all the snowy weather conditions we have had over the past two days, we made the decision to stay home this year instead of traveling and hosting Thanksgiving at the family cabin on Anderson Island.
This decision comes with mixed feelings. We enjoy the trek to Anderson Island and the adventure of having Thanksgiving dinner on Anderson Island. Thanksgiving is a wonderful holiday because it has nothing to do with gift giving and presents. It is strictly a holiday that you get to see family and friends (that you hopefully enjoy) and enjoy a great meal. Now, if you don’t enjoy the people you are with during Thanksgiving, then you have to come up with some better excuses for not going to that host’s Thanksgiving dinner. Maybe take a vacation trip to Kauai instead? (Heck you can stay at http://www.makanacrest.com)
Why waste your time with people that you don’t enjoy? You distance yourself from negative friends, why not do the same thing with your relatives? If you don’t like them, why subject yourself to their company? Why surround yourself with them? Thanksgiving is like the 4th of July. It is a holiday that you don’t have to think about, you just have to enjoy it. Life is too short to waste with stress about family gatherings and conflict.
So this year, hopefully you made the commitment to enjoy your Thanksgiving! Now, you just have to get through Black Friday and Cyber Monday!
As always, you are more than welcome to leave your comments.
Thanksgiving is over and it was a huge success. My hat is off to my darling wife (and I’m not being sarcastic either) because she, our family friend Lynn, and her son Matthew. This was our first year where we cooked the turkey with an electric deep fryer. It turned out excellent. One of the downsides of this Thanksgiving was the lack of KOTS being with us. He couldn’t make the time to come to Anderson Island and enjoy the turkey dinner. This isn’t the first time KOTS has skipped Thanksgiving dinner with us. This deeply saddens his mother and is most annoying to me. Hopefully, he decided to make the right choice and spend time with his dad instead of just blowing off with his girlfriend.
We don’t mind him spending time with his girlfriend. We’d like her to come over for dinner (we haven’t seen her since August). We actually like KOTS’ girlfriend quite a bit. What she sees in KOTS, I really don’t know but that is for another blog entry down the road.
Another reason it was important for KOTS to come was the fact, he had moved out of our house! Yes, KOTS’ pushed his mom a little too far in his lack of motivation and was asked to leave. I didn’t ask him to leave, his mother did.
While cleaning out his room, I removed seven bags of garbage and trash. I discovered a lot of almost brand new clothes that appeared to have been worn once. I wash them and bundled them up but KOTS has picked them up yet. We also had the carpets cleaned but the stains weren’t able to be extracted from the carpet. Sad, that a carpet has been ruined (no other carpet in the house is ruined..hmmm…now how could that be?).
With KOTS out of the house, he had to actually look for a job! Luckily for him, his Dad’s girlfriend’s son got him a job at the construction company he works at. KOTS mom and dad are also helping him get an apartment so he’ll have a place to live (besides here). I’m looking forward to seeing the “before” picture of this aprtment and an “after” picture. Legal note: We are not co-signing the apartment lease if you are wondering. I mean, look at my carpet? Does it look like I’m stupid? Hmm, don’t asnwer that one.
So in the last few weeks, KOTS has been forced to grow up and act like an adult instead of the thirteen year old he’d still like to be.